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Smiling woman, does bj stand for billy joel, or bon jovi???
Me: BH 40
WW 39
S13, D9
Married 15 yrs together 19!!!
D Day July 11,2011
WW in P.A. with OW
WW wants D
Almost done
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CV--
I lol'd while listening to that.
Wow!
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Matthew 5:44 (CEV)
"But I tell you to love your enemies and pray for anyone who mistreats you"
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You have got to b kidding.... billy joel??? how romantic  Hey now! I love billy joel! Just wouldn't call it "groove music" of course Dingus McGee also put disney music on there...
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CV--
I lol'd while listening to that.
Wow! I know. Special, right? She never paid attention to the words...
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The craziest thing my H said was "you don't trust me!!!"   Yeah lol, if you add a boo hoo and such to my late wifes anger and drunken bitterness and denial, well there ya go And it was all cleared up after I left her azz for two years, but I guess I shoulda stayed away, and insisted on AA Of course she didn't need AA, and Jesus understood her. She had it like that with God don't ya know Now I had a choice, get back together and be a father to my children, in a bad marrige, and be some sense of grounding for them, while praying for her removal of the cranium from her rectum, or leaving my kids to suffer Dr H was an addiction counselor, is a Christian, and insists that people get counseling for addiction before he tries to treat marrige issues A far cry from those who would rather keep people in thier sin, to control them Yeah it's an evil world
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Me: BH 36 Her: WW 34 Kids: D 14, S 12, S 9 DDay 1-6/2009 DDay 2-9/2011 DDay 3-11/2011 Filed for D 10/2011-Papers Served 11/2011 Divorce final May 24, 2012 My Story
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One of my favorite threads of all time resurfaces!
BH(Me)=40
WXW=38
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
DDAY: 8/31/09
Two boys: 8,7
Divorced 3/23/2011
Don't let your eyes refuse to see. Don't let your ears refuse to hear. Or you ain't never gonna shake this sense of sadness. --Ray Lamontagne
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My WW said pretty much everything on here plus these nuggets:
After exposure - "I feel angry right now that you didn't let me deal with this in a way that was...organic."
After "commiting" to MB and counseling with Steve - "I really need you to help motivate me with reading SAA...I've never been good with self help books."
After the poly ultimatum - "Fine. I'll do the poly, but I'm DONE with MB and Steve!"
After admitting to six different APs - said in a sipiteful, vengful tone "See? I told you that you didn't want to know the truth...does this make you feel better? Huh?!?!"
Shortly thereafter - "Of course he's your son! I have no doubt...why do you?"
Yikes
Me: BH
XW: Promises83
DS5
Married 10 years, first for both of us
D-Day: 27 Oct 11 trickle truth-ed until all 8 OMs were discovered
D Final: 16 Aug 2013
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My WW said pretty much everything on here plus these nuggets:
After exposure - "I feel angry right now that you didn't let me deal with this in a way that was...organic."
After "commiting" to MB and counseling with Steve - "I really need you to help motivate me with reading SAA...I've never been good with self help books."
After the poly ultimatum - "Fine. I'll do the poly, but I'm DONE with MB and Steve!"
After admitting to six different APs - said in a sipiteful, vengful tone "See? I told you that you didn't want to know the truth...does this make you feel better? Huh?!?!"
Shortly thereafter - "Of course he's your son! I have no doubt...why do you?"
Yikes Thanks, AJJ. I do appreciate someone who can find humor in a pile of compost like you did.
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Life keeps on slipping, slipping, slipping into the fuuuu-ture.
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If I'm gonna laugh about it some day...might as well start now, right?
Me: BH
XW: Promises83
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Married 10 years, first for both of us
D-Day: 27 Oct 11 trickle truth-ed until all 8 OMs were discovered
D Final: 16 Aug 2013
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Just LOVE this thread...
Reminded me of the time my W said to me prior to me taking her to doctor's for STD testing, etc.
"Would you mind if OM showed up to the appointment, too?....if he did, it would show that he at least cared about me, and he's entitled to know what diseases he may have and not know about as well..."
I can ALMOST laugh at that one now....almost...
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Here's a fun one.
"It was NEVER about HIM, it was about ME being unhappy"
crazy madness.
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Here's a fun one.
"It was NEVER about HIM, it was about ME being unhappy"
crazy madness. I heard this one too. Not only from my W, but from her step sister. What a POS
Me: BH 36 Her: WW 34 Kids: D 14, S 12, S 9 DDay 1-6/2009 DDay 2-9/2011 DDay 3-11/2011 Filed for D 10/2011-Papers Served 11/2011 Divorce final May 24, 2012 My Story
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the one that sticks out in my mind:
"dont you think it (the A) was a good thing that happened?"
My answer is still the same.....NO!
"Get busy living, or get busy dying"...... The Shawshank Redemption.
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Just LOVE this thread...
Reminded me of the time my W said to me prior to me taking her to doctor's for STD testing, etc.
"Would you mind if OM showed up to the appointment, too?....if he did, it would show that he at least cared about me, and he's entitled to know what diseases he may have and not know about as well..."
I can ALMOST laugh at that one now....almost... OMG, Dad.
Life keeps on slipping, slipping, slipping into the fuuuu-ture.
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OW to me: Why don't you and WH come over for dinner so we can discuss this. I will get a babysitter in case things get heated.
ME: BW
HIM: FWH
Married 18 yrs
DDay 09/2008 and 12/2008
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Mike,
I think the good thing is that W remembered some of the crazy crap she said and apologized for it all -- wondered how I put up with it and got through it.
I try to remember the person who said those things doesn't exist any more, and they were just words....words...
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I try to remember the person who said those things doesn't exist any more, and they were just words....words... Kinda stuck out to me, cuz my late WW would talk about the word of God, and make her focus on it, and talk was cheap.. But to the faithful, I think it was the action of God that backed up the words, that really matters. Yes thoughts, then expressed in words,and then actions, you don't have to be a bible scholar to actually see the truth. This thread full of the babble spouted by waywards, reminds me of the club of aliens, that we all are glad we don't belong to, and that actions speak louder than words. Its true, truth is stranger than fiction
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Just LOVE this thread...
Reminded me of the time my W said to me prior to me taking her to doctor's for STD testing, etc.
"Would you mind if OM showed up to the appointment, too?....if he did, it would show that he at least cared about me, and he's entitled to know what diseases he may have and not know about as well..."
I can ALMOST laugh at that one now....almost... Yeah fogged out to the max
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My two favourites (/sarcasm) are the twins:
(Cue whiny voice)
Why can't you trust me?
You'll never be able to trust me (again).
The latter said with emphasis to imply its the BS's shortcoming...
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