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Nothing happens by chance or accident or coincidence and I truly believe that. I would say you're mostly correct. Most things happen by CHOICE.
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Is it time for the group hug now? Someone pass me my ipad. I feel the sudden need to blog warm fuzzy quotations. 
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PDC - Sorry about the threadjack. Maybe these posts can get moved to their own thread.
PDC how are your kids doing? You said recently your oldest daughter has been helping out and giving support.
Stop in and give us an update. **edit** Any news?
{{{PDC & Your Five kiddos}}}
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My apologies as well. struggling, you need to go back to your own thread or start a new one if you care to continue waxing euphoric over your newly discovered belly button.
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Perfect, will do!! 
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And if you look back, I am not the one that jacked this thread. I posted legitimately and the rest of you were so excited to see me back, ya'll took over the thread. At least I gave you all a reason to get your feathers ruffled and something to do this morning.
Me - 29 WW
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PDC - Sorry about the threadjack. Maybe these posts can get moved to their own thread.
PDC how are your kids doing? You said recently your oldest daughter has been helping out and giving support.
Stop in and give us an update? **edit** Any news?
{{{PDC & Your Five kiddos}}} In an attempt to get this thread back on track, this is the information I found: **edit**
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Me: BS 51
Himself: WH 53, EA/PA w/ RunnerSlut his "running buddy."
Buncha' kids. The two youngest are still minors.
Separated: 08/13/09 after 25 years of marriage
Plan D: Filed 11/13/09 Final 3/30/11
MC told me that he probably has a personality disorder
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In an attempt to get this thread back on track, this is the information I found:
**edit** God Bless you PDC - so sorry for this news. Many prayers for you and your family. {{{PDC}}}
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I think it is time for a group hug because I promise you, there are so many worse things in life than a divorce and no matter what I still feel blessed. And what of your victims ... You're still so focused on yourself.Yes, I know that there are things worse than divorce. Such as an affair. Or destroying your childrens' home. You've got blood on your hands, but at least you feel blessed. Lovely. Exactly. Struggling sounds just like my STBX WH who doesn't seem very concerned about how his actions affect our children. Why? Because it's all about me me me and justify justify justify with fogbabble. *sigh*
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I'd like to respectfully ask you folks to take the strugglingaz discussion to a separate thread.
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I'd like to respectfully ask you folks to take the strugglingaz discussion to a separate thread. Hi, pdc. How are the kids? Any updates you want to share?
Me: BS 51
Himself: WH 53, EA/PA w/ RunnerSlut his "running buddy."
Buncha' kids. The two youngest are still minors.
Separated: 08/13/09 after 25 years of marriage
Plan D: Filed 11/13/09 Final 3/30/11
MC told me that he probably has a personality disorder
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Both myself and the kids are doing very well. I'm waiting for my divorce to be finalized before sharing. If things stay on track that should be very soon.
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You are booting us off your thread???  Just kidding, you SHOULD kick us offa here, we have it coming!  Hope you have some good news in the near future. I think about you and was hoping you were ok. Thanks for checking in.
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PDC, Good luck with it (divorce), keep us posted.
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Hey pdc,
Just read this thread and your original. Sorry your wife went nuts. A 14-year-old OM is beyond ridiculous.
I'd say try to keep those feelings for the new lady in check (at least for a while). There are lots of women out there, and it's probably not wise to fall for the first one you meet. Take your time. Take it slow. There's no rush.
And good luck with the divorce and the kids.
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Don't let your eyes refuse to see. Don't let your ears refuse to hear. Or you ain't never gonna shake this sense of sadness. --Ray Lamontagne
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Well, I found out today the the judge signed my divorce decree yesterday. Ugly chapter closed. I am very excited for the brilliant opportunities the future holds. I am able to keep my home and the kids and I have a happy, mostly stress free home. I have love in my life. 2012 is poised to be a wonderful year. Things are looking up .
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Howdy, pdc!! Congratulations on the divorce. Life can only go north for you.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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AHA! Your caught Mel, you just said the north was better!
Grats pdc
Many blessings to you
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AHA! Your caught Mel, you just said the north was better! 
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AHA! Your caught Mel, you just said the north was better! Oh ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh DUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKk
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