Usually the needs NOT being met will be at the top of the list when first doing these.
Let me give you a run-down of how to share these...each of you fill them out and then rank your needs. Sit down to share them once you are each satisfied that you have given them careful and thorough consideration.
There should be nothing negative in the 'how you want the need met' section--if you find yourselves writing down things you want your spouse to STOP doing, change it to something you want them to DO. Everything on there should be a positive action. ACTION.
When you share them, there is a SPEAKER and a LISTENER. The speaker will read off their #1 need, and all the stuff on the page, from how they feel to how they would like it met. The listener only listens, takes notes, and can ask clarifying questions ONLY--no, "But I already do that!" or "I can't do that, forget it!" That's for negotiating later after attempts to meet the need have failed. Allowable questions are things like, "When you say hold hands in public, do you mean at all times, or would you like it if it was just while walking somewhere?"
Once the speaker has read all of their #1, switch roles. The previous listener now reads the info from their #1, and switch back and forth until you've gone through all 10 for each of you.
If things get testy and it becomes difficult to finish without tempers flaring, STOP and come back to it later. This is an info-gathering exercise only. I suggest you give each other a day or two to let everything sink in before you even discuss it again.
Regardless of how each of you rank needs, make sure you are focusing on the four intimates of affection, conversation, recreational companionship and sexual fulfillment during your Undivided Attention time each week. UA is not for domestic support unless you're freaky like that!
Good luck, and make sure you don't skip over recovery as lined out in SAA. Extraordinary precautions are vital to you right now. Don't jump straight into marriage building 101 until you've properly recovered.