Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jul 1999
Posts: 65
Member
|
OP
Member
Joined: Jul 1999
Posts: 65 |
It's been a while since I posted or even visited here because I'm going back to school, so I'm kind of busy. <P>Anyway, things have gotten pretty bad with me & H. (Please see my profile for background). To try to recap some:<P>Late 8/99-I overheard a fight between H & OW and it was really bad. (She didn't like that I called H).<P>9/3/99-First 4-way meeting with our attorneys. H now knows how aggressive my attorney is and he doesn't like it. She requested his business books to come up with a maint/child support agreement(H owns his own business). <P>Columbus Day weekend, after H dropped off our son, I called H's apt to ask him something and OW answered the phone. 2 weeks later, my attorney calls me saying H doesn't want to have any contact except through the attorneys.<P>Now, last week he's playing hard ball with the attorneys regarding visitation.<P>I have been as nice as I could be with him but he's just being a B******. I am now at the point where I don't know if I WANT to be married to this man and it scares me. This whole mess has been going on for 1 year Nov 15 and I am so angry now. He is treating me like s*** and I never did anything to deserve it--all I have done is love him and tell him I still want the marriage. <P>I'm not sure where to go from here, but I could sure use some help or advise. How could I possibly continue to stay married to a man that is so mean???????????
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Apr 1999
Posts: 1,087
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Apr 1999
Posts: 1,087 |
Jackie, I'm really sorry things are like that. Your H seem to be completely blinded by the situation he created and it's difficult to keep loving someone that is active in such an insensitive manner.<P>I'm afraid I can't come up with any special answer that could turn the situation into something better.<BR>I'm sure that your H was a different person before the affair and the reason you keep trying is because that person you love, but this new one that replaced him is not very lovable, is he?<P>A big hug to you<P>Kat<P><P>------------------<BR>Each and everyone of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought, and the gift of understanding.
|
|
|
|
0 members (),
258
guests, and
61
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
|
|
|
