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And I will do anything to prove it to markos. My life is an open book to him.
Many of the things he has said about me are not true. As for the others, he is choosing to dwell on mistakes of the past. He knows what Dr. Harley says about that, but he does it anyway.
He is dwelling on mistakes of the past right now, and it's not the first time this year this has happened. Every time he does it, he gets depressed and demanding and disrespectful and everything we've accomplished crumbles. I have asked him several times to get on anti-depressants, and Dr. Harley has agreed that it might be a good idea for him to do. He's just now finally doing it.
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I don't have any advice, right now. DS is pulling my arm to go help him wrap some of his presents for school right now so I only have a sec. Just wanted to let you know I am praying for you guys. (((Prisca)))
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And I will do anything to prove it to markos. My life is an open book to him.
Many of the things he has said about me are not true. As for the others, he is choosing to dwell on mistakes of the past. He knows what Dr. Harley says about that, but he does it anyway.
He is dwelling on mistakes of the past right now, and it's not the first time this year this has happened. Every time he does it, he gets depressed and demanding and disrespectful and everything we've accomplished crumbles. I have asked him several times to get on anti-depressants, and Dr. Harley has agreed that it might be a good idea for him to do. He's just now finally doing it. I'm so sorry you're going through this Prisca.  and you're in my prayers. 
FWW/BW (me)
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I'm so pleased you are letting us be there for you Prisca. How are you holding up?
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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And I will do anything to prove it to markos. My life is an open book to him. I must say I think this is fantastic. This is exactly what Dr Harley says his response is, if Joyce is concerned about anything. Bravo for putting this policy of openness before all other considerations and before any question of pride. I hope I too get to show my husband my faithfulness in this way one day.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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It's a relief to hear this. I want to encourage both of you not to give up on each other, though serious work may need to wait to begin till after the meds arrive and kick in.
You two make an awesome posting team, and I know you have it in you to make a great DH/DW team, too.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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