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Originally Posted by SugarCane
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Thank you for coming back to update us. I wondered often what had happened to you as I was really concerned about the situation.

Could you tell us what date you were on the radio show?

Our e-mails were on, not us, on Monday, September 13. After the radio show, we started counseling with Mr. Steve Harley, and have had three sessions this week, and another one set up in a few days.


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Originally Posted by SugarCane
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Your husband did the bare minimum that you asked him to do by posting here. You said "post on MB" so he posted on MB. He wasn't particularly truthful or forthcoming. He did not respond to the advice, nor show in any way that he was trying to learn how to have a better marriage. I'm intrigued to know how he responded on the radio show and what he has been doing since.

He could keep you in hope for a long time, just by agreeing to talk to Dr Harley and then agreeing to counselling. He could sit through a counselling meeting every week, sounding very sorry and taking a beating. None of that is the same thing as taking action.

I agree with your impression. I apologize if I implied we were personally on the show, as it was just addressing our e-mails to Dr. Harley. We are super early in counseling and the only thing I'm hopeful about right now is that Mr. Steve Harley can figure out if there can be true change and remorse.


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Thank you for your replies. I love my wife very much. I am very sad I have hurt her. I’ve read the books and am reminding myself to execute POJA throughout the day. I will continue to address Emotional needs.

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