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I really don't put anything on FB. I have a picture of my wife and I..the funny thing is my wife has never had a pic of us as her profile pic..just thought about that..
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I'm sure Dr. Harley is right. I'm going to give her this one pass.
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I really don't put anything on FB. I have a picture of my wife and I..the funny thing is my wife has never had a pic of us as her profile pic..just thought about that.. Facebook is not marriage or family friendly because it does not allow for JOINT accounts. It encourages everyone to have an INDIVIDUAL account. In fact, your thread has been the final straw for me with facebook. I'm deleting my account permanently. Other social sites, such as Google+, allow for a joint account.
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I've never liked it. It has ruined so many marriages, people ruin the marriages, fb encourages it.
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FB is a good thing for MB. Get to use it for exposure. . works great for that..
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FB is a good thing for MB. Get to use it for exposure. . works great for that.. Yes it does. 
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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I've never liked it. It has ruined so many marriages, people ruin the marriages, fb encourages it. It is certainly a double edged sword! It has been an amazing resource for exposures.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I'm not tooting my own horn, but I'm a good looking guy who is in decent shape and the OM is this balding fat goofy looking guy, I just don't get it. Nothing wrong with balding guys or men being over weight. I'm not shallow.
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He just doesn't seem her type. What the heck do I know...
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I find it interesting when my wife tells me all my changes etc.. would save the marriage, but telling everyone I had an affair was over the top and it will never save our marriage.Your crazy.
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I would suggest that your daughter have clear instructions about how to keep herself safe if your wife gets physical. She should go to a safe place and call 911.
It is not only your own safety at stake here. Do you have a trusted neighbor she can go to?
Me 58: FWH (NC 32 yr), W 60, married 36 yr, DD 32
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I wish she would of told me that before exposure or better yet when where we going to reconcile after the divorce and property division etc..maybe she was going to let me know some day...I'm being sarcastic right now...
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She already knows what to do. I taught her code words for different things. When to go where to go and who to call.
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I'm not tooting my own horn, but I'm a good looking guy who is in decent shape and the OM is this balding fat goofy looking guy, I just don't get it. Nothing wrong with balding guys or men being over weight. I'm not shallow. Most people "affair down" so that is no surprise. He is also a turd on the inside!! My XH's mistress up in northern Michigan had buck teef, smoked cigars and went huntin for deer!  The first time I ran into her, I was behind her in a party store while she was paying for jumbo BUDS on a Monday night!  She is the complete opposite of me. I was speechless!!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Mel, you made me lol so hard right now. Why down What's the deal with that...
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I'm not tooting my own horn, but I'm a good looking guy who is in decent shape and the OM is this balding fat goofy looking guy, I just don't get it. Nothing wrong with balding guys or men being over weight. I'm not shallow. Most people "affair down" so that is no surprise. He is also a turd on the inside!! My XH's mistress up in northern Michigan had buck teef, smoked cigars and went huntin for deer! The first time I ran into her, I was behind her in a party store while she was paying for jumbo BUDS on a Monday night! She is the complete opposite of me. I was speechless!! Those "buck" teeth are good for chewing venison!
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Funny how OM ex-wife told me he is a lost soul and has nothing to his name, lost it all, not sure how, and can't even be there for his 16yr old boy. I'll bend over backwards for 6 yrs trying to reach my boy to the point of getting frustrated b/c he began manipulating us and getting us into arguments. But I love him unconditionally, but our strained relationship is the deal breaker...
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Most people "affair down" so that is no surprise. He is also a turd on the inside!! My XH's mistress up in northern Michigan had buck teef, smoked cigars and went huntin for deer! The first time I ran into her, I was behind her in a party store while she was paying for jumbo BUDS on a Monday night! She is the complete opposite of me. I was speechless!! Those "buck" teeth are good for chewing venison! [/quote]
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Funny how OM ex-wife told me he is a lost soul and has nothing to his name, lost it all, not sure how, and can't even be there for his 16yr old boy. I'll bend over backwards for 6 yrs trying to reach my boy to the point of getting frustrated b/c he began manipulating us and getting us into arguments. But I love him unconditionally, but our strained relationship is the deal breaker... I hope you can run the OM off. I predict that you can. You have him by the nads right now. 
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Don't get me wrong, I was drunk one day and said a horrible thing to him. I will not repeat what I said. I did apologize to him immediately after I said it. I'm not proud of it. I allowed that alcohol and frustration to make me say something that isn't true. They call alcohol a spirit b/c it's evil.
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