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I truly believe the lord Jesus Christ is helping through this mess now and has told me to fight. That's good. I encourage you to READ your BIBLE and PRAY every day. When I went through my hell, I considered it a fight like Rocky had...I decided that I was going to fight for my marriage till the bell rang...and if I lost in the end, I could still say, "I did my best." It's good to see you fighting for your marriage
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I just sent an email to the priest who married us, she likes him and has a lot of respect for him. I know my wife was trying to get a hold of him for SS school reference letter, so I hope he calls me back... This is very important; the Church needs to be informed of this and it should have been one of your first exposure targets
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When my wife came home with her friend, i posted what I said and I had my VAR on. My wfe is concerned about me. I have been nothing but calm, cool and collective.. I can't even understand how i'm doing it. Making a false accusation that I'm going to kill my daughter and then myself. Those people are sick.
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In OM voicemail message on his business, he ends it by saying "Have a blessed day."
If he attends a church then that Church should also be informed.
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When my wife came home with her friend, i posted what I said and I had my VAR on. My wfe is concerned about me. I have been nothing but calm, cool and collective.. I can't even understand how i'm doing it. Making a false accusation that I'm going to kill my daughter and then myself. Those people are sick. I'm sure you're documenting all this, correct?
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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I just sent an email to the priest who married us, she likes him and has a lot of respect for him. I know my wife was trying to get a hold of him for SS school reference letter, so I hope he calls me back... This is very important; the Church needs to be informed of this and it should have been one of your first exposure targets Iknow, I had a hard time finding his email. I did leave him my number.
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When my wife came home with her friend, i posted what I said and I had my VAR on. My wfe is concerned about me. I have been nothing but calm, cool and collective.. I can't even understand how i'm doing it. Making a false accusation that I'm going to kill my daughter and then myself. Those people are sick. Yes, they are. It is EVIL to make such lies. That's why betrayed spouses are always encouraged to keep a recorder on them at all times
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When my wife came home with her friend, i posted what I said and I had my VAR on. My wfe is concerned about me. I have been nothing but calm, cool and collective.. I can't even understand how i'm doing it. Making a false accusation that I'm going to kill my daughter and then myself. Those people are sick. Your wife is very desperate. Thankfully you have a recorder with you to protect yourself.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I'm sitting her just numb. I know I could of went the divorce busting way and I probably would ended up divorced, while my wife slips under the radar and gets her new man.
So I chose the MB way where there is total kaos and panic for sure on the wayward and posom, I get to look crazy and then still end up divorced or my wife returns and then everyone forgets all of this. someone tell me they went through hell and back and there marriage was reconcilled
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You are doing a great job, WD. I am taking notes.
D-Day 1 - May 4, 2012
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Please let us help this poster with exposure. If you don't understand how it all works, then take it elsewhere. This is not the right place to debate the plan of attack.
We have spent hours on this thread helping this poster and we don't need you to pop in and undo all our hard work.  FMT, That 2X4 is for yourself, correct? Was it not obvious that I got wacked hard by a 2x4?
D-Day 1 - May 4, 2012
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I'm sitting her just numb. I know I could of went the divorce busting way and I probably would ended up divorced, while my wife slips under the radar and gets her new man.
So I chose the MB way where there is total kaos and panic for sure on the wayward and posom, I get to look crazy and then still end up divorced or my wife returns and then everyone forgets all of this. someone tell me they went through hell and back and there marriage was reconcilled Oh boy, we have seen much worse than this come back and end up in great marriages!! The reason there is so much chaos is because you have inflicted serious blows against the affair. If they were all happy and sweet, it would only be because the affair was going on in peace and quiet. The affairees are desperate and are in panic mode playing a game of shock and awe with you. This is the strategy of terrorists. Do you see all the SMOKE on the battle field? Don't be scared by the empty smoke.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Deuteronomy 20:1
When you go to war against your enemies and see horses and chariots and an army greater than yours, do not be afraid of them, because the LORD your God, who brought you up out of Egypt, will be with you.
2 Samuel 22:19
They confronted me in the day of my disaster, but the LORD was my support.
Psalm 3:6
I will not fear though tens of thousands assail me on every side.
Psalm 16:8
I keep my eyes always on the LORD. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.
Psalm 27:1
The LORD is my light and my salvation-- whom shall I fear? The LORD is the stronghold of my life-- of whom shall I be afraid?
2 Timothy 1:7 For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I would try to google as many local pharmacists as possible, and email them that Cheaterville link
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When my wife came home with her friend, i posted what I said and I had my VAR on. My wfe is concerned about me. I have been nothing but calm, cool and collective.. I can't even understand how i'm doing it. Making a false accusation that I'm going to kill my daughter and then myself. Those people are sick. Your wife is very desperate. Thankfully you have a recorder with you to protect yourself. My wife is desperate, so she wants to plaay like I'm crazy. I will tell you this, My Ex is crazy, I wouldnt put it past my EX, that she is the one who did this, they both did. I'm not even going to mention this to my wife or my ex, I will not even entertain them with there delusional fantasy. I still haven't said a word were all our pictures went. I'm discussed that my wife would allow me to give her a back massage and be all playful like this, just to try and throw me off the sent.
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Mel, I needed those fighting scriptures, thanks I copy and pasted them. Funny how she came home and brought a friend because I'm crazy, nice dramatic entrence. I wish I had a 24/7 video camera of this entire event. That way one day when this A ends and she finally comes back to her senses, we can see the doctor and jekyll and hyde in her.
She sure likes to run from her problems, thats for certain.
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The police called me, asking if my ex can pick my daughter up at midnight, I said I will be taking her to school in the morning. they said ok..
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The police called me, asking if my ex can pick my daughter up at midnight, I said I will be taking her to school in the morning. they said ok.. Say what? What is that about?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Playing like i'm crazy See POSOM said he knows my weekness, I guess they want to use my ex to get my daughter from me. My ex told me on the phone about what i'm doing is illegal, some cop you are! and she said I will have to take her from you b/c I'm going to lose my job etc.. I'm not going to lose my job, I did nothing illegal. Plus lets get all the phone records, text messages from both there cell phones and businesses to. I don't think my wifes boss would be happy with that, they record there calls. I spend every last dime I have on it, before I give it to that loser...
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The funny thing is, the more I found out about the affair the more that POSOM pressured my wife. She told me that my pension, annuity, bank account and my daughters college fund would not be touched, I earned all of it and you put your life on the line for it, that is what she said. The more I found out about the A, she made copies of everything and gave it to her lawyer were talking almost a quarter of a million dollars. This scum bag wants my money. I know it because when I told him he had nothing that hit a nerve, he sees dollar $$$, even his exwife told me had nothing he lost everything..
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