HB, he will need to quit that coaching job. His affairs should be exposed to everyone involved, including your children.
Response
we talked about the coaching job and he will no longer coach.
_____The unfaithful spouse should reveal information about the affair to the betrayed spouse.
Response he has and im not sure if he has revealed it all.
[quote=MelodyLane]_____The unfaithful spouse should make a commitment to the betrayed spouse to never see or talk to the lover OP again.
Response he does not have any contact with either.
_____The unfaithful spouse should write a letter to the lover OP ending the relationship and send it with the approval of the betrayed spouse.
_____The unfaithful spouse should take extraordinary precautions to guarantee total separation from the lover OP:
_____Block potential communication with the lover OP (change e-mail address and home and cell phone numbers, and close all social networking accounts; have voice messages and mail monitored by the betrayed spouse).
Response i do monitor everything. he wanted his whatsapp back for work and i let him have it back. he only talks to his employees.
_____Account for time (betrayed spouse and wayward spouse give each other a twenty-four-hour daily schedule with locations and telephone numbers).
Response i do know where hes at all times
_____Account for money (betrayed spouse and wayward spouse give each other a complete account of all money spent).
Response yes i have all control over all the money now
_____Spend leisure time together.
Response yes we do
_____Change jobs and relocate if necessary.
Response not necessary
_____Avoid overnight separation.
Response we dont spend any nights apart
_____Allow technical accountability.
Response yes
_____ Expose affair to family members, clergy, and/or friends.
this has been done to everyone but my 6 year old girls. i just dont feel comfortable telling them. they are young i wouldnt understand.