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"I like her [OW's] maturity. Everything is so black and white with you"

He also added "She understands the complexities of life"....unlike the wife you have betrayed multiple times who you think still believes life is a fairytale?! Hmmm. If you are looking for someone who understands life's complexities, you might try looking closer to home....


BW (me) 40
WH, serial cheater, 41
Four children:
DS1 8
DS2 7 (from one of WH's previous affairs, lives with me)
DS3 6
DD 2

D-day Jan 4 2017
Plan B (first attempt) Feb 21 2017
Plan D Aug 28 2017
Plan B (properly) Aug 31 2017

"If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs - and blaming it on you....or being lied about don't deal in lies..." IF, by Rudyard Kipling https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems-and-poets/poems/detail/46473
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chalkncheese, thanks so much for the morning chuckle! rotflmao

I don't have anything near as fun to add...the one thing that I can remember is that my FWH once told me "she isn't some beautiful woman, she is just like you!"


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Just remembered another one:

[following the comment about me not noticing that his shirt had creases in it because he had taken it out of a suitcase, which I explained by referring to the fact that I was struggling with a full-time job (I'm a CEO) and a 4-month old breast-feeding baby and three other kids]

"I think you love suffering" ??????!!!! Yep, I really do love stress.


BW (me) 40
WH, serial cheater, 41
Four children:
DS1 8
DS2 7 (from one of WH's previous affairs, lives with me)
DS3 6
DD 2

D-day Jan 4 2017
Plan B (first attempt) Feb 21 2017
Plan D Aug 28 2017
Plan B (properly) Aug 31 2017

"If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs - and blaming it on you....or being lied about don't deal in lies..." IF, by Rudyard Kipling https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems-and-poets/poems/detail/46473
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I think I have a few.

(A couple weeks after discovery of affair w/ OM1)

Me: "OM's wife has told me her husband has entered counseling"
Her: "Yes, because his wife is causing him depression"

(Recently in court mediation about OM2)
Her: "I don't know what you care, I only went on a few dates with him".

(Directly to court mediator)
Her: "I don't see why the kids need counseling. I have not been hurting them in any way because I have been honest about what goes on between us when I brought them around OM2 and bring them around OM3"



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"I think you would really like her, you know, if all this wasn't happening"

UM, off no I would not! Thank god he has really changed and is not that man anymore, 3 years later.


BW-27
FWH-31
DS-6
Married several years
D-Day- 11/22/13
Plan A+Exposure
NC+Beginning of Recovery-04/2014

In Recovery and happier and more in love than ever
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