Hi Gang:<P>Last week 2fer started a thread <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/012564.html" TARGET=_blank>How do I get through it?</A>in which she described her situation as a WS working to restore her marriage while separated in another town from her BS. Several MB including me advised her to seek a reconciliation with her H although he was threatening divorce.<P>However, in her last point she mentioned that in '98 she had separated from her H due to physical abuse although she later got back together with him. Her first posts indicated that he was controlling but not to the extent that her last post did.<P>I have little experience with physical abuse...but it seems that she has decided to return to her H (see today's post <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/012695.html" TARGET=_blank>Clouds,Buffy/Faye..10 days</A>)...and I'm not sure this is a good idea in light of the abuse she mentioned previously...maybe she is better off to remain where she is...at least she is out of the abuse. Can anyone help?<P>Faye<P> <p>[This message has been edited by buffy (edited September 24, 2001).]

I will email Zorweb...seems to me she has posted to others in this situation.<P>Cali

I'll reply after I get the kids tucked in.<P>Z<BR><p>[This message has been edited by zorweb (edited September 24, 2001).]