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Hi, I was looking through my old stuff and I came across some good information for those of you who have spouses going through mid-life crisis. www.midlifeclub.com/I got some really good information from this article. Jill <small>[ August 13, 2003, 07:29 AM: Message edited by: jillybean36 ]</small>
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Jillybean36, Thanks for the information. I actually read "How to Survive Your Husband Midlife Crisis". I am convinced that my WS is in the middle of a MLC. I did not believe that it really existed until this I started trying to find reasons for his 2 affairs after many years of marriage. WS had complained about how bad his life was prior to the affairs and I could not understand his unhappiness. We had a wonderful life or at least my children and I thought so. I was wondering if you believed that your ex was having a MLC, and if so is he still in the crisis now after the failure of his affair marriage...Rhonda
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Rhonda,
I'm not sure if he continues to be in mid-life crisis. I haven't spoken to him in over a year. He really doesn't keep in contact with the kids and the kids really don't want to keep in contact with him either.
He did marry OW2. That marriage lasted less than a year. He then escaped from Mn where we live and moved to TN near his family. One month after moving there he moved in with a women and her son. So far it is going well for them I guess.
My ex- Mother in law who I continue to talk with often she told me he is still spending alot of money and his truck and toys so my guess would be there is still some mid-life going on there.
I had really tried to be understanding through it all but he just got way out of control and I just couldn't deal with it anymore.
Jill
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