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#2984135 10/25/03 12:14 AM
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Hi All,

I don't get many sugestions on where to meet for the next time. I think we have to settle for Metreon again until we finish Virtual Bowling <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> . Parking is a bit stiff unless you are fine with "stacked parking" for $5 all day.

Now the date & time ...

If there are some young ones come along I will bring in my 2 D.

11/15 or 11/22 (w/ the young ones) any votes ?


Notes: Why do we do this ?. Support group !, there is no such thing as Affair-anon support group (I might be crazy enough to start one). Even you are in recovery you could reap the benefit ... there are some FWS that you could ask questions. Definitly if you are in pitch dark plan B you can't post much, your local contacts come very handy. If you are Dv like me ... we could exchange notes on how to live alone but not lonely <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> plus our experience on what worked and what wasn't working are great info here.

How many times you post and keep clicking refresh to wait for answer <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> ?. Local support is not just "reach and call someone" but also "drive and meet someone".

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Thanks Redhat for taking point on these gatherings. Maybe we can get LuLu down here one weekend in November and do a Santana Row thing? That would be fun too since we never did go virtual bowling (LOL) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> That's ok, the camaraderie is very enjoyable!

Count me in on the next one, whatever we decide. We have a great group of people and I look forward to getting to know everyone better.

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T1,
Glad you could commit to come. Yes, Santana Row is nice and we should look into it. We need a hang out that allow us to stay for at least 6-8 hours <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> .
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#2984138 10/26/03 12:23 AM
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Either the 15th or the 22nd is do-able for us, although I think the 22nd would be better.

I might bring my oldest D (15). I would be comfortable with her entertaining herself, and she said she'd love to meet AM's daughter! We both agreed that she would not want to hang out and listen in on our conversation though, so we probably wouldn't stay quite as long.

Looking forward to another great salad at Metreon, or maybe the noodles....

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KS41,

I asked my 2 D (11&14) they want to go also to Metreon. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . 11/22 it is <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . Don't worry about staying too long, I have hard time to get them out of there ... one word of warning, bring mucho dinnero.

I am glad you could make it <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . We have 4 adults and 3 teens ... still waiting words from Orchid & LULU. Wangi & Blah could not make it. I wonder Oaktown will be able to make it this time.

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I am ok with the 22nd. I was to shy to show up for the last one. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Actually been having a tough time lately and can't seem to get me out of my rotten feelings. I am afraid that divorce is approaching much faster than I have wanted.

I just found out that WH went back with the OW after only two weeks of Plan B. I thought the most painful part is over, but it sure hit me hard. I feel a little ok now and about to go to daughter's game. I hope I can be nice when I run into him.

#2984141 10/26/03 08:45 PM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by supermom:
<strong> I was to shy to show up for the last one. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I hope you make it to this one. It does feel a little awkward and weird at first, but RedHat and Orchid are really skilled at making everyone feel comfortable and at ease. Everyone gets something different out of it, depending on where they're at in their relationship, but I think everyone benefits.

Hope we see you there.

#2984142 10/31/03 03:52 PM
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^bump^ ... 11/22/2003 .... SusanBT ? Oaktown ? orchid ? lulu ? JR ? A.M Martin ? ... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> -rh-

#2984143 11/01/03 12:43 AM
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We plan to be there. T1 and Devastated Chris, can U 2 make it?

L.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Orchid:
<strong> We plan to be there. T1 and Devastated Chris, can U 2 make it?

L. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Good <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> , T1 is coming and she might want car pool again.

-rh-

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waving hi to everyone!!!

what time on the 22nd... i have a potential conflict with a boy scout event...

oaktown...

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We have 7 adults and 3 teens <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> ... I am still waiting for Lulu & AM Martin+her teenage D. JR is still AWOL.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by oaktown:
<strong> waving hi to everyone!!!

what time on the 22nd... i have a potential conflict with a boy scout event...

oaktown... </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">There is always next time <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> .

-rh-

#2984147 11/07/03 09:41 PM
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^Bump ^

8 adults & 3 teens.

11/22/2003 @11AM

Contact Orchid mborchid2@yahoo.com for details.

^Bump^

#2984148 11/08/03 02:00 PM
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Redhat -- I was still reading when you got home, but not online!

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by A.M.Martin:
<strong> Redhat -- I was still reading when you got home, but not online! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Where in your sleep ? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> . anyway, r u coming ?

-rh-

#2984150 11/15/03 11:06 AM
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^BUMP^ ... still no word from SusanBT and J.R. ... OMexW couldn't make it, her S has to go to boot camp. (he is smart ... run far away from all of this craziness).

-rh-

#2984151 11/20/03 01:53 AM
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^ bump ^ ... JR rather chase his new found girl ... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> .

supermom ... if you wants to know where we meet please mail orchid.

susanbt ... where r u ?

^bump^

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RH, RH <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />

No, I'm not off chasing girl(s), but I had kind of been planning to go hiking on 11/22 for a little while now. Not too many more days it'll be possible! Of course, that's if the weather is okay - if not, I'd be more than glad to head over there.

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J.R.:
LOL! , I knew I would get your attention. I would pray that the weather.com would be wrong and rain all day on Saturday <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . Hope you can make it next time too.

-rh-

Now, where is SusanBT ?

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Yes, friend, D and I are coming. Probably noonish?

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