divorce papers were signed yesterday and I am trying to stay dark. I am on Plan B still hoping that he would change his mind.

It has been a long plan B and I am for some reason going out of my mind today and soooo horny <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> I am so thinking of going out to try and find some companionship but I don't want to go there.

What to I do ladies and gentlemen....

How long has it been? I've always been curious to how long does it usually take for a woman to get horny? For men, or at least for me, after a month I'm ready to explode. My wife moved out July 31. I KNOW she has been having sex.

I know exactly what you are going through. It is especially difficult when you know the WS is having this need met. I even tried to initiate, but was rejected. The truth is, I really don't want to be intimate with anyone else right now, just him. Especially difficult as we are still living in the same house and sleeping in same bed. This was one need he was meeting for me and now he is not, so the frustration is bad. I even told him so, but he does not feel comfortable with having sex with me, is afraid I will get the wrong idea. I know I could go out and find someone for this purpose, but I just do not feel comfortable doing that and there are other ways to at least temporarily ease the frustration. But its the intimacy that is also missing, not just the physical act.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by supermom:
<strong> divorce papers were signed yesterday and I am trying to stay dark. I am on Plan B still hoping that he would change his mind.

It has been a long plan B and I am for some reason going out of my mind today and soooo horny <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> I am so thinking of going out to try and find some companionship but I don't want to go there.

What to I do ladies and gentlemen.... </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Think about how easy it is to fall into a BAD relationship. Think about how you want to rise above this situation and come out the other side a restored, wiser, better person. The way to this goal is NOT to go prematurely into another physical relationship.

Right now, as a BS, we are most vulnerable to really poor decisions ref a new relationship. The main ingredient we need to get our heads screwed on straight is TIME!!!

Also, consider that you need God to lead you to the next relationship. This will only occur if you honor Him by adhering to His principles of life! No adultery. No pre-marital intimacy. The rules are there ... for a VERY good reason!

The best to you, and believe me I thoroughly understand the great desire for intimacy after 4 yrs of not having any. You read that right. 4 years.

Consider not only the moral aspect, but how about the practical aspect also. Is short term ecstacy worth long term agony? How about std's or aids? What about the emotional garbage associated with adultery - guilt, anger, condemnation?

I care too much about you to not mention these things. God bless!