My husband and I have been married almost two years. I have three children from a prev. marraiage,one was already grown. My daughter left about a year ago, my youngest is still at home. My husband has one child, she lives with us. The problem is that we can not agree on discipline.When I say something to his daughter, who just turned 18 I'm attacking. Example: She did not go to school because she didn't feel good, I reminded her that she has already missed 9 day this semester, she is a jr. That next year when she is trying to get into colledge the will look at this, I was attacking. No matter what I say I am attacking her, I'm lost. I have never said a word when my husband has gotten on my son for something but yet I can not say anything to his daughter