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#330290 12/26/04 09:31 AM
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I've been going back to your post to find out if anything new has come up. I'd really like to know how things are going. There's not a lot in my life right now, Dr. Harley suggested that I focus on my realtionship with my daughter until she's grown. So the only people in my life now are the one's I communicate with online or at work. It's tough.
I can identify with your girlfriend and would like to know how she is doing.

If you wouldn't mind telling some of it, or if she wouldn't mind. Or if she wouldn't mind talking in private, maybe she and I could talk and email. I know it would help me to talk to another woman that I can identify with on a personal level. Most women out there today don't understand at all.

Please let me know.

Thanks,
Becki

#330291 12/27/04 11:08 AM
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Becki:

We are doing great. We had a great christmas. It was my first "family christmas" with her and her daughter and we had a great time. I am so excited about this year with them and getting married. I have truly realized that I can fully trust her and that she is ready for a family and to settle down. We opened our presents to each other by ourselves and she cried and said this was the best christmas she has ever had. We just held each other and fell asleep. I know she is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. Thanks for your post. It really helped me realize I can't judge our future by our pasts.

#330292 12/29/04 09:42 AM
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kd,
I'm glad things are going so well.
Now before you two get into any trouble and have any of your feelings start dying off from differences between the two of you, I suggest you get some of Dr. Harley's material and start going over it; so you can learn what it is you need to learn about each other. It could have made a big difference in my life if I had had it sooner. And he even commented on one couple that realized the importacne of keeping those feelings alive and the fact that they started it all before they got married. It all went well for them.
Take care you two!

Becki


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