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#338704 05/18/01 05:43 PM
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My divorce was final on 4/30/01. Everything totally initiated by him. I always maintained "the stand" for my marriage, and continued to pray. Even if reconciliation wasn't possible, I wanted so badly for my XH to come out of the fog and realize what he was doing.<P>Well, low and behold, he now realizes (& more everyday) what he gave up and all that he sacrificed for a lie. I have received his calls and visits open heartedly. I know that this is only the beginning and I don't know what will ultimately happen. It gives me such peace to know that he came to me and showed me emotion and regret, all of his own free will (and the Lord's good work!).<P>It is what I have prayed for for so long. I had faith and hope, but I still didn't think this would ever happen. It is only the beginning yes. But, still a true example of the power of prayer.<P>Please, I ask you all to continue to pray for my XH and I, that he be truly delivered from the OW, be repentent, and able to find the love for me that he once had, and that I have the strength take this all on. I just don't think I could take any more heartache. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Thank you<BR>Petrie<P>

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Petrie,<P>Praise God! I knew this would start to happen. I will continue to pray for your marriage. Remember Satan will start pulling on him harder now so, XH may go back and forth about feelings. We know that God will win. Praise God for His work and for your faithfulness. Don't let Satan steal any of the glory!<P>gentle

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Petrie -<P>Glory be to God! We have prayed for this and are rejoicing with you. Just take it slowly, one day at a time, and lean on God. There will be good days and bad days but God works in mysterious ways. Just remember to reflect His glory. You and your H are in my prayers.<P>Patti

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Amen Petrie. My wife at one point in our 3 years and counting seperation told me she wanted a divorce cause she knew deep inside oneday she would like to start over with a new marriage, with me of course. I think it was the guilt and she wanted to somehow have a way out cause she knew i wouldnt give up. we spent the day together today and we are really growing closer and she told me a few months ago, she was glad she never divorced me. I think it was cause she cost me enough money-lol. Be patient with your husband and maybe mention to him that now you two can start over and do it right this time. I told my wife we are going to get remarried anyway and she was touched although it will just be symbolic.(still have piece of paper) My prayers are with you.<BR>Mark

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Petrie,<P> You know you are still in my prayers.<P> beth

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Praise the LORD!!!<BR>With God all things are POSSIBLE!!!<P>I am so happy for you! You are in my prayers!

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What great news!!!<P>I am so happy for you and I will remember you in my prayers.

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Praise be to God! You are in my prayers. Keep hanging in there.<P>Steve

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Thank you everyone for your kind words and continued prayer! The prayers are probably needed more than ever! I am very optimistic right now, yet I know that it will be a difficult road ahead.<P>Praise God<BR>Petrie<BR>


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