First let me tell you I CAN NOT SING but I wanted to really drive home how much she means to me. I have a bad voice BUT I have found a song that works and I'll beat will work for us men who NEVER had a voice. It is Elvis Presley's "Can't help falling in Love". The tone of the voice is fairly constant and I think you'll be able to sing it. As far as the place to do it KAROAKE, Sing it right to her sit right there at the table and DO IT. Now you'll need the courage to do it. Well most of us are here do to marriage problems. I fear loosing my wife more then anything in the world so when I compare the two I can do this.<P>I'm planning it next week I'll let you know how it works.<P>Joe<BR>