My husband was reading through some read-only archives and came across your posts. I can't believe how much you sound like me! It's a very similar situation. The OM started by flirting with me. He gave me lots of attention while my husband was working lots. His W was, in my opinion, mean to him, and it bothered me so much because of the friendship I had built with him. Anyway, I just thought I would comment on the similarities and see how things are going for you.<BR>Also to HGB and Duck and Weave, thanks for your encouragement, Keep it up, we have a long way to go, but we're taking one day at a time!