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#393062 08/04/00 03:29 PM
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I have a question. I am currently writing a letter to my mom, again. I wrote her a letter and mailed it to her about a year ago explaining a lot of things. <P>Brief summary. I am the betrayer in my marriage. Two years ago in Feb. I walked out on my H and took our daughter with me. Our D was four at the time. I filed a restraining order against my H on the insistance of my mother. There were various reasons why I left that I won't mention here but one of those reasons was my parents and family. My family doesn't really like my H, but they won't admit that they don't like him. My step-mother is the only one who really seems to like him and tells me that it doesn't matter what everyone else thinks about him only what I think and I love him very much.<P>I went to church and realized that some of the things that have happened in the past have really been bothering me. I realized that I needed to settle these things before I could have a good relationship with the Lord. Quite a few of these things involve my mother so I decided to write a letter to her but I'm not sure if I will ever send it to her. My question is; Would anyone be willing to read this letter, once I'm a finished with it and tell me what they think and whether I sould send it? I would be more than willing to email it to anyone who could give me any input on it. Leave me your email address here and I will send it to you for your review.<P>Thanks to anyone and everyone who responds. I don't want to post it here because I think it may be way to long unless people feel that it should be posted here....

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I'll have a go.<P>chrisca@pcisys.net<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

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Sure I'll have a go too. But a brief outline of the letter of a year ago might help.<P>hanorasmith@hotmail.com

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Hey, hopeful:<P>I'd be happy to take a look at it. If you recall, I looked at the last letter you sent.<P>You have my E-mail, right?

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Hey I'll have a look at it, also. It might help to get a number of responses.<P>CChicsrule1961@aol.com

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Hopeful,<P>I'd be more than happy to take a look at it.<P>Xena-apwp@worldnet.att.net<P><P>------------------<BR>Molli<P>Find your strength within!

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Hopeful,<BR>I LOVE the tone of your post. You are making big beautiful leaps in getting closer to God which in turn will result in you getting closer to ES. God is truly wonderful.<P>I, too, will be willing to read your letter to your mom. God is working in your relationship to her as well. Pray and read His word and He will make all things clear to you at the time when it is appropriate for you. Because I come here so infrequently now that we are getting along better, email it to me if I'm not asking to much. <I>Missed read your post, email is below</I>. I genuinely care for you and ES. It is very important that we have a right relationship with God in order for all other relationships to reach the maximum joy that can be found in the relationship.<P>------------------<BR><B><I>God Bless,<BR>Rob</I></B><BR> regilmor@swbell.net <p>[This message has been edited by professorg (edited August 06, 2000).]


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