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I have been suspicious for a long while. Still have no hard proof. What should I do.<BR>I have tried to uncover w/o success. Last ditch is to tap his phone. (Scarred to)<BR>Can I start a Plan A to improve things even though he says things are "just fine"<P>Looking for Help<BR>
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Does your phone have a redial button? Every once in awhile...go hit it...maybe when you suspect he was on it last when you were not around. Just a thought.
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Lighthouse:<BR>(I like your name) Interesting you suggest that cuz I have tried that but I just get <BR>phone machines. When I get hangups I have done *69 it says that number can't reached even tracing *57 for harassing calls can't trace it which is not normal. These are the things that make me suspicious/ crazy. <P>Do you think I need to get the affair in the open in order to start Plan A? <P>I sometimes wonder why I stay <BR>
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Why are you suspicious? What is going on?
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you wonder why you stay...but are you for sure there is an affair going on? Has it been discussed yet? "What" do you want to bring into the open? Your suspicious feelings...or some evidence?<P>The reason most people 'stay' is because they still love their spouse in spite of the pain that has been inflicted upon them. Not sure what would be more tormenting and painful....knowing there was an affair...or suspecting there was one going on.<p>[This message has been edited by lighthouse (edited August 17, 2000).]
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