Hi all,<P>My W had a question for suse (and other former WS's) regarding "getting over" the OM - how long it took, what helped in the process, how did you handle the "no contact" rule, dealing with withdrawal, etc. We're only 4 days past d-day, so any insight and a roadmap will be helpful.<P>Would you be so kind as to pop over to that thread and help her out? (You'll need to wade through a bunch of posts with Mike promising to cut off his penis, but don't let that scare you [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]). Look for her post from Sept 1, 11:13 PM.<P>Thanks!<P>Leon<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum8/HTML/001692-3.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum8/HTML/001692-3.html</A> <BR><p>[This message has been edited by Hurting Badly (edited September 02, 2000).]