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She is going to the OM's house for the weekend
#402174 08/31/00 10:53 AM
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Last night, my wife mentioned that we needed to mow the yard. I told her that we could do it on Saturday. She then said, "I am going away this weekend". I said, "Where are you going?", and her response was, "To be with OM". I was completely devastated again, as she is so matter - of - fact about this whole thing now. <P>My children are going to be terribly hurt by this as well. She recently left to be with him - he lives 150 miles away - and only came back to stay because my daughter was injured. Since this is a long weekend, I don't expect to see her until late Monday night. <P>I am really coming to the end of my rope here. I want to make this work one minute and the next, I want to proceed with a divorce. Just venting here, hoping there will be words of wisdom waiting for me when I check this board again. <P>Thanks.
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Her words and actions show that she does not respect you and her marriage. I would recommend that you read Dr.James Dobson's book "Love Must Be Tough" which discusses situations such as yours.
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scanman...<P>...always a tough one... [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>...hang tough...<P>Check the informal "review" of <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/010263.html" TARGET=_blank>Readers of "Love Must be Tough" - Please Reply</A>…..Roll Me Away….12/1/1999<P>It's a good book...<BR>...but lacks the "peristant" attitude for a Plan A that MB recommends.<P>That's not to say that some have gone with "tough love"...<BR>...and made it!<P>I still feel (the MB bigot in me)...<BR>...you should stick with the Plan A approach.<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim

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