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#41129 12/13/99 04:55 AM
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I am so sick of feeling helpless, not knowing what to do. Not knowing if what I am doing is right for my H and I. For me? I'm at to point where I really don't know what I feel. Sometimes I feel nothing when I know I should feel something. I feel like my heart is growing cold and hard. I don't know what to do.<P>Please help......

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HI camjon,<P> You rang? [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] Feeling hopeless is a very common feeling here. Just remember, you are NOT alone in this. Because NONE of us knew what to do before we got here, we are all trusting that Dr. Harley isn't just trying to sell books. <P> There have been a LOT of success stories on this board in the seemingly most "Hopeless cases". So, the methods must work. <BR> You may want to speak to your Doctor about some meds. Just temporarily. <BR> Read as much as you can about this. I don't know your story, but from your profile it seem you're not sure there WAS/IS and affair. Read about the "signs" this may help. About feeling something. I'm not sure what you mean. If you mean feeling LOVE for your H, this will come back with time and work. <P> A marriage can survive a LOT more than you think. As a couple that's been together for 50 years. They always have a few MAJOR bumps in the road. It's just part of it I guess. I read something like 75% of marriages have an affair by one of the spouses. Anyway, your heart will survive either way. And remember, you are NOT alone!! GOOD LUCK & PRAYERS FRANK<P>------------------<BR>desperate<BR>"If yesterday didn't stop today, Why should TODAY stop tomorrow??" <BR>"Wisdom is why!!"<P>


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