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Is Plan B too Late?
#417598 09/22/02 10:25 AM
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Hi: My husband had an affair five years ago that really devasted our family. He lost his job over it, but ended up coming back to us. It really never was quite the same since. We moved on the other OW ended up marrying a milionaire and is quiet happy! My husband walk out on me Friday night, saying he was done, he loves me but can't live with me, blah, blah, blah. He won't let us know where he his and won't take any of our calls. He didn't finally speak with our daughter and told her he was unhappy and isn't coming back, ever. Is it really over do i do something or just let it go? Help!!

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Re: Is Plan B too Late?
#417599 09/24/02 02:01 PM
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WeNeQn,

I am sorry that you are going through this right now. If your H's A was 5 years ago what has been done in that time to improve the relationship? Did the two of you go to counseling? I would suggest Plan A, it seems to me that the A is really not the issue anymore. You should also read "His Needs/Her Needs". If he is saying "he love you but can't live with you", it sounds like there are EN's of his you are not meeting. Maybe you can write him a letter telling him how you feel, that maybe things were not addressed before to really repair the marriage. I would send him a copy of the EN's questionaire to fill out. These are just my thoughts on it, hopefully others here will have some more advice for you.

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