I think my husband is having an affair again...I just don't know what to do anymore. We haven't been getting along very well. The other evening we were supposed to go into town to do some shopping then at the last minute he said he was too tired. But yet he wasn't too tired to run his mother into to town to pick up a car part.

I'm so upset, I feel so stupid, to keep taking him back time and time again. Right now I'm just totally ignoring him.

Where do you all get the strength? I'm so tired of being unhappy, its been so long since I've laughed or been happy I don't know how to anymore.

Just me

Hi and welcome to MB,

I am sorry you are feeling badly. Could you please post more of your situation so we can understand and lend a hand?

Also, it may be helpful to acquaint yourself with the concepts section above.

L.

confused35 --

I don't know where the strength comes from, to endure, to get through the day, to not lose our sanity. I just know that each day brings us one step closer to the sunlight, one step closer to peace and happiness. I'm not nearly there yet but I'm getting there, as all of us are.

I can feel your pain and tiredness; you have every right to feel that way. I'm so very sorry. I see you're a new member so I will welcome you to MB. We're all fellow sufferers here, of one sort or another, mostly BS's. Moments of joy and laughter for most of us are few and very far between. But we're here for each other and we're now here for you...

Please post again and let us know how you're doing. If you could give us a little more of your situation, we can be more specific with our thoughts--whatever you're comfortable with.

I'm sorry for this in your life, sorry that any of us have to go through this. Thoughtless and selfish thoughts and acts from those we love and trust the most is unspeakably devastating and violent. We survive it with support and caring and understanding and empathy--all of which you'll find right here. Give yourself time to recover and patience to get through it. I wish you peace...

Ammon

confused,

Are you still with us? Still reading? Please. There IS hope. Read. Read ALL parts of this site. There is a plan. There is a way to work through these situations and possibly have a better marriage than you'd dreamed of. Read and post. You are NOT alone!!