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What is a reasonable time for the stages of anger/forgiveness/restoring trust? WH says he can't "take it" if it takes me 2 years (my estimate) to learn to trust him again. But he keeps lying - I found out about A in Nov. and he promised never to see or talk to OW even tho they work together. Last week I found out he'd been calling her! In anger, I kicked him out. Now I'm regretting it (surprised he took me up on it) and he's not willing to give me time to quit being so ANGRY about this! I am struggling with wanting to lash out and punish him but knowing I should offer understanding of my role in our problems if I want to save the marriage. Married 10 years, 1 child.
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