My ex-FIl told me the other day that my ex is not happy at all and that the divorce is really bothering him. H didn't tell him this, he just said he could read it in his actions. On the other hand, he is still very involved with OW. He has stopped being so angry with me, now he just tries to avoid me. Is this remorse, or someone who could just care less? He certainly doesn't seem to be as happy as when he first left, even our son notices.