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#441457 01/03/04 05:00 AM
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What are some good ways to lead wife out of withdraw. Been like two months now and I'm staving it off myself. Got a kiss on the lips today. But she's sure it's over for us.

#441458 01/03/04 07:54 AM
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Since this was your first post, please give more background and detail. People will be willing to help the more they can relate with situation you have.

Do consider Plan A.

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Smalley's book "If Only He Knew" provides a pretty good blueprint for how to bring a wife out of withdrawal. Or, read What Are Plan A and Plan B?. Harley really focuses on cases of withdrawal that involve an affair, but the way to draw a person out of withdrawal is prety similar whether they are having an affair or not. You must give your wife a emotionally safe place to express herself. No Love Busters.

Good luck.


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