I just recently confronted my wife (of 13 months) regarding some very sexual and erotic emails from an old boyfriend of hers (refer to the link below). In the emails, the old boyfriend has been trying very hard to persuade my wife to meet him somewhere for some sexy playtime. After I confronted her, she insisted that she had no intention of meeting with him and would never do such a thing. She downplays the situation by telling me “it was only flirting” and that she was going to tell him to stop being so provocative because she is perfectly happy and in love with me. And of course she denies having an affair because it was not physical (at least not yet).

Her old boyfriend is also a newlywed. I personally don’t know this man, or his wife. But, from the emails I was able to get his work number, cell phone number, and his wife’s first name. From his voice mail at work I was able to get his first and last name. I have the emails printed out. What I would like to do is send copies of the emails to his wife. She has a right to know exactly what kind of man she is married to. By doing this, I also hope to deter any future attempts at infidelity on his part. I’ve been looking at websites that offer name and address searches using cell phone numbers. The prices range from about $6 to $80, depending on the website. I was wondering if anyone could recommend a dependable source for finding a mailing address from the limited information I have. I would prefer to not spend a fortune if it isn’t necessary.

Thanks,

Mrh52

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http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=29;t=004779

Please post on general questions. There are lots of good sites. Sorry, I can't remember them. But someone will be able to help you.

Hello,

I certainly think you should send this to the OM's wife as soon as possible. Ask your wife if she would like to flirt with women the way the OM was flirting with her? Her behavior was inappropriate and disrespectful to you and your marriage. If she cannot acknowledge this then your marriage has some serious problems. I wish you luck.

I was wondering if anyone could recommend a dependable source for finding a mailing address from the limited information I have. I would prefer to not spend a fortune if it isn’t necessary.

I was successful in finding mailing addresses just using the first and last name through
www.whitepages.com

using their reverse lookup. In the case that they are unlisted there are a lot of other websites like peoplefinder.com.

I also STRONGLY advise the emails being sent to OM's wife. I only WISH someone would have sent me my FWH's emails. It should definately stop his contacting your wife.