WH was home for a week. He treated me and the girls like dirt most the week. He was constantly ill w/ stomach cramps or vomiting. If this is stress related or not, I don't know. He never lived up to the promises he said he'd do when he came home. I went to visit my mom 45 min away for the evening. I decided to leave early because I wanted to watch the Sopranos and didn't set the VCR. I get in the car and I had just missed a call from H @ work. I call back and theres no answer. I figured he'd call back within 15 min when he got home. By the time I get off the expressway, no phone call. I decide to check out the apt he has his things at still. Guess whos there? Ok, I figure he's there picking up the rest of his things like I had asked him to do the night before. I go home and drop off the kids at a friend. I go back to the apt and he's still there. Still there? This is not picking up his things. Within 3 min of my arrival, OP pulls up and rings the security door. My heart sank. Why? I don't know. I should have expected this. Well, I came home after this. Promptly placed the 2 boxes he brought back home outside and took all the things out of the laundry room and put them outside. 2 hrs later he pulls up, gathers up his things from outside and drove off. I was shocked that he didn't try to come in the house and give me some moronic excuse. Welome back, Plan B. You weren't gone for very long. This time, NO CONTACT. And if I do, all of you can line up and have a free shot at me. Right now, I feel very little for him. and If I want to keep whats left, I best do this. I am angry hurt sad and dissapointed in him. He's willing to risk a wife, kids, house and business over this. Would the person who removed his frontal lobe please return it please? He could use it right about now. The minute my back was turned for an evening, he pulls a stunt like this. He told me Sat night that he has always loved me. I don't know what this is but, it does not feel like love to me.