Reading Sheryl's "Going" post and the reading Lor's "No going" posts in which both of them have somewhat humorous (to me) takes on the "plans" (Sheryl says we'd just tell her to follow some plan if she listed her reasons and Lor mentions Plan A-/B+) all of which got me to thinking....<P>I think we all have "personal versions" of Dr. H's famous plans, some of which may not not be terribly close to the originals. And some of us have probably come up with Plans C, D, etc. as well. So, to cheer everyone up, I thought I'd give mine and invite you all to do the same.<P>Wex Plan A - Apologize all over the place even when fights are HER fault and, in general invite her to wipe her feet on a doormat named Wex.<P>Wex Plan B - Apologize slightly less and at least get up off the floor but don't stop doing the dishes. Cuss at her once in a while.<P>Wex Plan C - Call her bluff. Tell her she can go whenever she wants to but I'm staying no matter what.<P>Wex Plan D - Every time she tries to start a fight over my drinking, mention her affair and start in on that.<P>Wex Plan F - Chuck the whole stupid mess and get a life!<P> <P>--Wex <P>

Haven't seen you in a while. Glad to see you still have your sense of humor. Hope things are going better for you.

how about plan L:<BR>H accuses me of being Lazy, and not helping out HIS financial situation, then i bring up his cheating, and he sleeps in the guest room for weeks afterward.<BR>ps, i have a 2yo, and a three month old, and never spend a dime, while he maxes out credit cards all the time and accuses me of cheating on HIM with his best friend.<BR>hey, at least i don't have to listen to him snore in addition to nursing an infant all night!<BR>good to see ya again, wex

Hi Wex,<BR> <BR> ...you crack me up!! Are you still up to your detective work? Lu

Janie - You have to have a sense of humor when every day is an adventure of not knowing whether your spouse is going to leave or not. <P>LWB - Your H acts exactly like my W, including the credit card bit and the sleeping in the other bed for weeks for essentially the same reason.<P>Lu - Yup, still detecting, still putting the pieces together, trying to get up enough gumption to rent a car and actually follow my W to a rendezvous w/ OM.<P>Everyone - Thanks for the welcome backs. Actually, I've only been gone about a week, mainly, I think, because I just got tired of all the sad stories, mine included. Hence my little attempt at humor here.<P> <P>--Wex

Wex - good to hear from you!<P>I like your plans, too. <P>Lori