Hi mickey... Hi Jenn... (and anyone else reading)--<P>Hey, I'm glad the both of you are doing so good with your husbands. I'm truly happy for you. And if I was able to help in some small way, I'm glad. Really though, all I did was share my experience on a computer screen. Hardly anything at all. You all did the REAL work!<P>I'm not posting anymore on the MB forum. There are many reasons for this, which I will not go into. But suffice it to say that I'm pretty much retiring. I'm adding to the mass exodus. I'll still be lurking, but no more posting.<P>If you really want an update on my situation, and you have an email address you don't mind sharing on the forum, you can reply to this thread with it, and I'll email you from here at work (that goes for anyone interested). mickey, I seem to have lost your email address... sorry!. <P>Or, if you would prefer not to post your email address, you can send a note to me at "airheart@home.com"... That is my home email and I only check that maybe once a day anymore, but you're welcome to email me there.<P>take care and good luck on your recoveries...<BR>--andy

Well I give a rat's a**, but I think I annoy you more than help <P>But if you ever want to contact me my e-mail is faithhopelove2@go.com<P>All the best!<P>------------------<BR>Faith, Hope, Love Remain,<BR>but the greatest of these is Love.<BR>1 Corinthians 13:13

Hey Andy,<BR>I care too....and would love to know how it is going for you.<P>My email is mrstrucker@geocities.com<P>I hope all is going well for you<BR>Stacy<BR><P>------------------<BR>Jaded Heart<BR>____________<P> <A HREF="http://journeys.webprovider.com" TARGET=_blank>http://reflect.to/journeys</A> <P> <P>

Hi Air,<P>I care. Sorry you are having such a bad go of it. My email address is onni54@hotmail.com.<P>I hope everything works out for you.

Airheart,<P>I give a rat's a** too. So many people are leaving and I must say I do understand...<BR>If you want to email me I am patientl0ve@yahoo.com<P>the o in love is a zero<P>I'll keep you in my prayers.<P>------------------<BR>Love and Prayers<BR>Nicole<P><BR>

airheart -- I'm very sorry that things have not worked out for you Andy. I know how difficult things have been for you.<P>You presence will be missed a great deal from this forum.<P>I will continue to pray for you my friend.<P>God Bless<BR> MB_Empty_Shell@hotmail.com <p>[This message has been edited by Empty Shell (edited January 18, 2000).]

andy, andy, andy <P>you know i care, don't you? of course you do!!<P>seems like things are not working out very well, and i am sorry for that.<P>you know, i have been thinking about you and your family alot lately, and i think (yes, that's scary) what you need to do, is stop trying so dang hard.<P>i don't know where you are at (i did e-mail you yesterday) in your marriage, but i think that you are trying to hard to 'get those feelings back'.<P>nothing worth while happens over night. nothing worth having comes quickly. you need to decide what you want. what is most important to you.<P>then, you need to focus on how to get that, and work your a$$ off!<P>i do care. i want what is best for you, your wife and your son. i think that is staying together and working through the storm, but, i can't speak for you.<P>please take care, and you are always welcome in my mailbox <P>God Bless,<P>cheryl

Airheart,<P>Well I give more than a rat's a**, <P>dkohb@yahoo.com<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Hey Andy - more people love you than you realize. I give a rat's a** and would love not to lose track of you.<P>ldodge6209@aol.com<P>Good luck, ok?<P>Lori

My e-mail address is cwalker842@aol.com and I would love to hear how you are doing. You seem to be where my h is. I found this board almost a year ago and I really look forward to posts from betrayers and how they are feeling as it gives me insight how to deal with my h. <P>You are very much appreciated and I would love to hear from you!

I give a rat's @$$ too, even if I don't post very much anymore, I still lurk fairly often. My email is labutterfly68@hotmail.com. I try to check it at least every other day.<P>Thoughts & Prayers,<BR>Butterfly<P>------------------<BR>There are deep sorrows and killing cares in life, but the encouragement and love of friends were given us to make all difficulties bearable. <BR>-- John Oliver Holmes<P>The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.<BR>-- Elie Wiesel<P><BR>

Hey Andy.. Write me at PNagel7@cs.com!!<P>I would love to hear from you........<P>Paula

I really wish you wouldn't stop posting. I have appreciated your insight.... So... if by chance you read something I write that you think I am doing terribly wrong, I would really like you to tell me so! Take care and good luck to you...

Thanks to everyone who's replied here! Where are you Jennifer Jones?<P>Anyway, you all should've gotten an email from me explaining why I left the forum and what my current situation is. Thanks for caring.<P>--andy<BR>PS to Cheryl -- I sent you an email too, in response to the one you sent me the other day. Didn't you get it?

Lacee, we posted at the same time! <P>I'll be lurking around, even though I won't post. I doubt that I'll have anything wise to say to you. There are many other people on the forum who are much better equipped to give you advice, but I will keep an eye on your situation. <P>--andy

Andy - As a fellow "old-timer," I just wanted to say farewell and wish you loads of luck. I've found your betrayer's perspective very useful in helping me to understand why someone like my W would want to have an affair, as well as some of the ways that a betrayer can "come back" to their marriage, the way you seem to be trying. Regards, blessings and well wishes,<P>--Wex

Andy,<P>I'm sorry to hear you're leaving...but, wish you the best in whatever choices you make.<P>I just want to thank you for being there from the beginning when I was so desperately caught up in withdrawal...you really helped me tremendously...and it will never be forgotten.<P>All the best to you in your search for happiness...and if you ever feel like getting in touch my email address is holly_bear_1999@yahoo.com<P>Take Care,<BR>Pam<p>[This message has been edited by Holly (edited January 18, 2000).]