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H rented an apartment in the same town as ow. Don't think thats a good sign. He says he still isn't sure what is right and he may not go. They email all the time and she thinks he's staying. I think he's going. H can't stay away from contacting her. He's making his decision on Sept. 1. He thinks God told him it was alright to have this relationship. We have a phone conference with Dr. Hurley tomorrow. If any of you have counseled with him please share with me how it went. thanks

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Sorry, Haven't counseled with Dr. Hurley, but you just ask your husband to show you where adultery is ever approved in the bible. Make him prove his point. Divorce is hated, adultery is hated. God tells him to love and honor his wife as Christ loved the church. It's a good thing Christ doesn't bale out on us! Good luck with counseling tomorrow.

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Hi Noel,<P>You'll have to excuse me, because I'm not a believer. But, it really sickens me when people don't take responsibility for their actions, and place blame on God. Why does he think God gave his/her permission, because he did it? This world would be in a heap of trouble if everytime somebody did something negative, we all said God must have wanted it or I wouldn't have done it. Where in the bible does it state it's ok to cheat on your spouse? Can anybody who is familiar with the bible, please tell me what exactly it DOES say in relation to marriage? I'm just curious. Thanks<P>------------------<BR>The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.<BR>Helen Keller<BR>

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Noel,<P>What a yuckky situation!<P>I've spoken with Steve Harley once. It was just me (I'm hoping to get my H involved with the next appt). Steve was very matter-of-fact about my upcoming meeting with a divorce mediator. He knew his stuff and helped me focus on taking care of myself in case I actually end up divorced, as well as working out a plan for how to save my marriage. Good Luck!!


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