I am a WW .. I had an affair after 10 years of marriage. This was discovered by spouse. I am working to build a better relationship. We have applied Plan A/Plan B to this. We have discussed radical honesty up until now. My spouse told me he had met someone. This was short lived and was nothing more than a need to be attractive. I found out later, it didn't happen the way he described it. I asked about this and he became and remains defensive about it. He doesn't beleive I have the right to be unhappy about this and be suspicious.. This is creating a block to us healing. I need to know how to handle this. The contact reamins with the OW...