I do NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO. Plain and simple. My husband is a compulsive liar, and doesn't realize it, and when he does, denies it anyway. He can not use the computer with out watching or downloading porn, is CONSTANTLY looking at other women, and has even gone so far as to take pictures of them, unbenounced to them, on his camera phone when he was supposed to be working. He says its no big deal to look and its not like hes cheating, but he pays almost no attention to me anymore at all. I have had 2 children with him in the past 2 1/2 years, and we've been married for a little over 3 years. I have been told many a times, that I look like I never had kids. I am 5'7" and weigh 117 pounds and have been propositioned to become a model in the past, but I do not want to do that. Its not that I'm unattractive, he just choses other people over me constantly. If I stand in front of the tv when someone who is scantly clad and a little attractive is on, I get told to move and get out of the way, even if I am naked or in lingerie.
Someone PLEASE HELP ME. I have NO CLUE WHAT TO DO.

please, please, please
-Princess Paradox

try to repost this over on the Emotional needs board......you will get more responses.

I am in the exact state that you are in. For 8 years now, my husband has lied about everything. Once, after he'd gotten back from a business trip, and he got an e-mail from a girl from the town he'd just been too saying what a good time she'd had. He says it was just joking around. Come off it. How dumb does he think I am. He's cheated on me on the internet, I know that for sure. I'm not sure about in other ways. But he lies about just about everything - our finances being a big part of it. I just found out that he'd been stealing from the company we both worked for, and we both ended up losing our jobs. Am I in a relationship that's just doomed for failure. He says he finally recognizes what he's done, and that this time, it will be different. He WILL change. How can I believe that?