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I am really troubled and unsure of what to do
<br>with my future. I have been living with my fiance for almost 4 years now and will be getting married within a year. I am concerned about our anger control. When we disagree we both tend to get physical, not with each other, but we will sometimes break things. I am scared that this behavior will escalate and we will have tons of problems. This happens every few months. I realize that my anger control is as bad as his, I yell a lot, and can get physical but never break anything. We have tried to work on this and have made improvements. If we totally dedicate ourselves to this can we change? We love each other dearly, but we both have the same communication/anger problem. Do we need help? I fear if we keep on this path one of us will physically get hurt further down the road.
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You're right. You both need help. There are anger management courses that can help you deal with your anger before it becomes violent. By the way, in California what you described (throwing things) is considered domestic violence and can get you thrown in jail if you are not careful.
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