My husband does not agree with this policy as it applies to friends (if I'm uncomfortable with his going out with them). He doesn't want me choosing his friends and he doesn't want to choose mine. He thinks this gives both spouses too much power. He also likes to go out by himself on occasion (he's an introvert and quiet) and likes to be by himself. I have tried to assure him by telling him once our love banks are filled, we would feel more comfortable with these issues. Is there anyone out there that has had difficulty with this issue? And how do we resolve them?