I have posted this before but I am still having trouble understanding why. W began seeing OM 2 weeks after wedding day(Both our second). Started out as friendship ( our photographer, Daughters senior pics, classmates in school)but quickly advance into more. She will not talk about it except she says she is sorry for hurting me. She has lied to me about their continued friendship 2x and now is telling me it is over. <p>When it all started I did some checking and was told that she had confessed to OM that she wanted him and not me. Only married me to help me and found out after 2 weeks that marriage was wrong. hearing that and my wife not talking about it puts me in the state of wondering if it is over.<p>Wife has confessed to me that she wants only me for the rest of her life. We have been through counseling and the outcome was that we are on the road to recovery. I am not sure yet I still feel very betrayed, not by the A but by the lying and to happen so soon after wedding.<p>Any suggestions? I have done plan A but I am not considering B

tm2:<p>Need to know a lot more to offer comment, but on the face of it, looks BAD. First instinct is to say DUMP her!<p>What did counselling reveal? How long have you 2 been an item? How soon after 1st marriage did you marry her? Tell us more.<p>muzohead

I agree with Muzohead. It is unbelievable that your wife would start cheating with an OM two weeks after your wedding and lying about it. I would dump her immediately. She does not believe in fidelity and the committment of marriage. I would suspect that she is saying she wants you until she finds another OM. I really thing you would have to be crazy to stay with someone who cheats on you two weeks after the marriage. Good luck.