My husband moved out a month ago...He says he doesnt want to work it out, yet he hasnt done anything to finite the relationship (i.e. see an attorney). He said when he moved out he was hoping that "absence will make the heart grow fonder", yet I think it is more like "out of sight, out of mind". Is there hope if he doesnt even know what he wants? How can i get him to work on the marriage, without pushing him further away?