Well, the weekend was indescribable. I don't even think they make words that could describe how wonderful it went. All my prayers were answered and all my faith and perseverance paid off. My H went to the weekend with the attitude of getting to "unload" on me for all the things I did to hurt him. We even started early by him showing me a folder he had that had all of his "hurts" in it. I was kind've let down because I had hoped he would see his part in all of this too. I put a happy face on, took the "unloading" with a smile and prayed that God would open his heart.<P>Well, he did... By the end of the weekend, Bill had realized his part in all of it through self-reflection... NOT through anything I said or did. His attitude started out as one of "I didn't do anything wrong" and changed to an attitude that included him asking for my forgiveness and saying he was sorry.<P>I truly hadn't expected such a miracle. This program was the best thing I have ever did. Even if one spouse goes with a bad attitude, usually it is that spouse that grows the most over the weekend. I learned things about him I never knew. He also learned about me. He came to appreciate the determination I had in saving my marriage and thanked me for it. I never thought I would ever hear those words. I also never expected to hear him take responsibility for his actions. <P>I feel so blessed! I feel like I experienced a miracle. I feel healed. God is truly wonderful and can do awesome things if we let him.<P>I have my marriage back. I feel happier than I ever have. I feel like I have been blessed with a second chance for a happy marriage.<P>I would recommend Retrouvaille to ANYONE!!! Even people who only have small marital problems! It is awesome!!!<P> <A HREF="http://www.retrouvaille.org" TARGET=_blank>http://www.retrouvaille.org</A> <BR>