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trapped mom,<P>I know exactly how you feel.. I tooo feel the same way.. I don`t post much, because my feelings clash with others on this board, that may frown upon my points of views.. but to me there is no excuse for what our spouses have chosen for "them selves" <P><BR>It is (almost) two yrs my ex is gone.. and I still can not understand the "why`s" <P>I will never be able to forgive or forget what he did to us all as a family and to my daughter, (right now) with bringing his hussy around to hang out with them, knowing my kid knows this is the woman dad left her mom for, knowing this is the woman that took her dad from her.. (in a sence) and broke heart as well.. <P>I still don`t know how they look at them selves in the mirror every day, and can live with what "they" did.. and in my case didn`t do, to help our marriage, when things were getting tough, the "weak" "coward" left.. <P>I still have so many days that this hits me as though it happened yesterday.. because I loved him so very much.. why..? I now do no know any more.. <P>I am also in agreement that I hope their lives crash, (some time soon) big time.. this woman was married, befreinded us with her H, (my H`s old high school freind.. that was best freinds with his first ex wife) and I knew from the first evening out with her and her H, just what she was after.. I knew she was not happy in her marriage and voiced this to my ex, and he laughed it off.. <P>well now she is the one, feeling like she won, and is laughing at me.. and I am hating this, and her, more and more every day.. <P><BR>my D has allowed them both to manipulate her.. and hide the fact they have been hanging out all together.. my ex telling my dad, to spare my feeling.. well waht about my d`s feeling!!!!!! this man has no sruples.. and it is so unfair that no one can take these people to court to face some kind of consequences for their behavior.. especially to the kids.. this is what I call mental cruelty.. besided the immoral issue.. (being she is still married)<P>I am with you trapped mom.. all the way.. vent away.. we all need to so very much.. <P>you take care..<BR>AV<BR>

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"trapped mom"...that could be MY name. my kids are 3 and 1, and i've done everything i could to stay home with them, and now im getting royally scr*wed. i have no money, and i WON'T go home to H's house, but i don't care. OW wants him, she can have him. they can live in their own little reality, but my kids and i will have our own lives. (im scared to death, but this has gone on long enough...first d-day was 7-31-98, and she's still hanging on strong). makes me sick how they can just la-de-da through my life with a bulldozer and no consequence for them.<BR>.....yikes...i had no idea i was so mad...sorry to vent on your vent [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>hang in there,<BR>julie

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