Ji, I am so sad. Today is our 21st anniversary. <P>He has started and stopped the divorce 2x since June 2, 2000. Ambivalence was prevalent for a long time...<P>And now, a year later, he has amended the orignial petition and a hearing is June 15. <P>I truly believe that pressure from op is a major factor as well as the alcoholc they drink. <P>And he could becmoe her fourth husband......the thought devastate me. and for my children.<P>No happy times...<P>elo