My stbxwh has done it now. He is 41 years old and another policeman came to my office today to ask how I like his new "TATTOO". Of course, he didn't know that my h had filed for divorce and was quite surprised. I am furious, he had his lawyer write my lawyer a letter saying he didn't have much money and not to run up the legal bills. He only gives me half of his checks and both of my boys have had lots of expenses that I have had to find the funds for and the stupid XCR$# goes out and gets a tattoo. Can not believe what the kids are gonna say, what an example. Also can you imagine what the next woman will say when asked about the tattoo. "Oh, I am rebelling and in midlife crisis and stupid for leaving my wife of l9 years and kids so I thought I would get a tattoo to remind myself of these wonderful times and memories!. He makes me sick, have you heard anything to stupid!!!!