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To anyone who has read my post and would like to email me please feel free. This is a forum my wife has come to for awhile now so I dont want to create this situation for her. Thanks to everyone who replied to my posts, I will still try to use the information I learn on the home page and GOD to bring us back together. I will look at the forum for a day or two more for replys to this post but will post no futher. I have grown alot but still have alot of work left to do on myself. Thanks MTB
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Remember that you can't change her but you can change yourself. You can try to become the man she wants and needs. And you can get into counseling for yourself. And you can find a way to request the opportunity to go to counseling as a couple.<P>Good luck and may God bless you. I would love to see you all find a way to work on everything and to grow. <P>What a kind thing you are doing to leave this place for her sake. I hope you find peace in your life.<BR>
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Great thoughts, cinderalla. I think one part should be modified, though, and this is just an opinion of mine. Become the man <I>you</I> want to be, by being aware of how your wife might have felt about you and your actions. The exercises elsewhere on this site are invaluable for doing that.
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Point well taken. <P>Knownaim - You can do much to improve yourself. All of us can. It is not easy. It's no fun to really look at yourself and see all your warts and imperfections. And the ugliest things are so painful to see. But until you do that, you will not be able to grow into the man you can become.
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