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#6953 09/01/99 05:57 PM
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My h picked up the key to his apartment today. He may be moving out on Friday,although, he said he still isn't sure. Sounds pretty sure to me . Why do you think he says that? The ow has wanted an answer by today as to his leaving me.How do I survive between now and his leaving on Friday? How should I treat him? I'm just trying to keep things as good as possible, while falling apart inside. thanks for any suggestions.

#6954 09/01/99 06:30 PM
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I know this sounds completely crazy. But when my H was ready to move out, I took an active role in it. I packed stuff for him, when through the cabinets and pulled things I thought he would need, etc. I even helped him load the truck. For some strange reason keeping busy helped me alot, and I felt like it was part my decision. It also made him stop and see that I could be a grown up about this. Even though he is not living here, we have been getting along great when we are together. <P>------------------<BR>A.K.A.<BR>PondVJ

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Thanks Vickie for your story. I don't know if I can do that, but I may try. I'm glad you're getting along well. Is he with the ow? How long has he been out, and how are you doing with it?


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