Dear Friends,<BR> I am a christian woman struggling between the flesh and the spirit. I have considered myself a strong Christian woman through what i thought were the hardest times (when he filed for a divorce, when I learned of the affair, when I prayed for him relentlessly and was patient in waiting for him to turn from his evil ways and come home). But now that he has come home, he now brings baggage, and it is too humiliating to endure. I love God, but am angry with Him for testing me to this degree. Not that I am not a sinner too and not deserving of it, but I struggle to understand and would rather not. <BR> My H came home last Tuesday, told me that he loves me and needs me and that he is sorry and is trying to focus on God. OW is 2 months pregnant. She called me and told me that if I were any kind of woman I "would leave him and let him be with his new family." She came over and started throwing things at the window until my H went out there. She goes to his work and talks in circles about his responsibilities (which he knows he is responsible). But she is trying to manipulate him. She told me that she will kill me and she will have her uncle kill my H. (She is 21, we both are 28).<BR> Anyway, please, if anyone, has any advice that they could share with me or if anyone has been through this, please help. Thank You.

Julia,<P>I'm sorry you are having such a horrible time. I don't really have any answers for you, but I do have a question. Is this other woman the reason your husband left you or did she come in his life after you guys split.<P>TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK!<P>ANNA<BR>

I am so very sorry for your situation. Do you also have children with him?<P>I can offer no advice really, but wanted to express my sympathy and suggest you try posting in this area where many will have similar situations and hopefully some d=good advice for you:<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/forumdisplay.cgi?action=topics&forum=Pregnancy/Child&number=35&DaysPrune=20&LastLogin=" TARGET=_blank>www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/forumdisplay.cgi?action=topics&forum=Pregnancy/Child&number=35&DaysPrune=20&LastLogin=</A> <P>Good luck.

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by mnca6713julia3:<BR><B>She told me that she will kill me and she will have her uncle kill my H. (She is 21, we both are 28).<BR> Anyway, please, if anyone, has any advice that they could share with me or if anyone has been through this, please help. Thank You.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Please take the threat seriously. I had a coworker who is DEAD and left behind 3 young children because her boyfriend's previous girlfriend had her brother kill her out of jealousy.<P>Contact your local police department and get a complaint filed and some advice on how to protect yourself and your children.