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I can't find my spouse and I want to get a divorce. What do I do. We don't have any assets or children and I don't have much money. Does anyone know what I should do. HELP ME

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Well..first of all how long has your spouse been gone? Any Children? And assests? <p>I know in some states if you have no clue where they are after a certain time frame you can file for divorce by posting in a newspaper for 30 days..(if you have no known address) and I do know if they have been gone 7 years and you have no clue where they are you can have them declared legally dead...so..how long has your spouse been AWOL?

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he has been missing for a year now. his family has no clue where he is. how long do i have to wait to get a divorce. i want this done asap. i live in new york and i have no clue what the law says for this state. do you have any more info for me

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Here's an excerpt from www.divorcenet.com for New York:<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> Abandonment for One or More Years <p>
Abandonment means that your spouse has intentionally failed to fulfill a basic marital obligation or has left you without your consent, of his or her own accord (that is, you did not force or lock your spouse out of the house) and without justification. You must also establish that your spouse had no good reason for leaving (such as your ill-treatment or your consent), that he/she left with the intention of never returning, and did not offer in good faith to return. Unjustified refusal by a spouse to have sexual relations or where one spouse locks the other out of the house without good reason are considered a "constructive" abandonment. The abandonment must exist for a continuous period of at least one year before the action is started. There is no statute of limitations on abandonment.
<hr></blockquote><p>So it sounds to me like you could go ahead and file right now without much trouble.<p>CYA:<p>But I'm no lawyer, and the above information was originally provided to www.divorcenet.com by Joel R. Brandes, a New York attorney. - but please visit the site yourself, and definitely talk to a lawyer rather than act on any of this info. Since I cited the original website & author, I don't think it's a problem that I copied it here.<p>[ January 16, 2002: Message edited by: stable guy ]</p>

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Why do you want a divorce asap? How can he be missing-back ground please..... This is very confusing..Why haven't you seen a lawyer? Have you contacted the law. I'm questioning this because I know someone who said their spouse was missing and they needed a divorce asap, turns out the spouse was in the same town and she got him for everything claiming abandonment. Plus she went out and got married asap........Do you still love your spouse? Are there clues that they left you for someone?


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