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My husband's long hours at work seem to be taking a toll on our marriage. He can't change them since he's in the military. It just seems that all we do is bicker when he is home. It's not an specific issue or repeated arguement that makes us bicker. We probably sound like children when we do this. I just don't know why we pick and pick at each for no reason and then we both end up angry. Lately I've been wondering if our marriage is going to last because when I look at him I don't see the man I married, I don't see all the qualities I fell in love with. We don't ever get to go out alone on a date since baby-sitters are scarse and money is tight right now.<BR>Please help! What can I do?
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Little Earthquakes,<P> Got your reply to my post and I posted a reply in it. I know how it feels for the babysitters to be scarce and the money tight. Don't know if it will help, but have you read any of Dr. Harley's books or completed the printable questionnaires with your husband? I have printed them, but not having much luck having him fill them out. I also placed an order for His Needs, Her Needs and 5 Steps to a Romantic Marriage or whatever its called. It's not easy to remain patient and meet someone else's needs when they return home from a long day's work and you've been at home with the kids all day. I know you rather feel like someone needs to take care of you. We lived that way for about 9 months. Good luck and God Bless, 1truegirl
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