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#727226 05/18/02 12:42 AM
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I am filing for divorce, I dont want to leave the house and wife dont want to leave also, because of our son. We both want to be with him and be involved with school and sports interest. We both dont have the finance to move out on our own. We dont want to sell the house yet. Any one out their is living with ex wife in the same house. How is it? Wife has a friend and talks on the phone.

#727227 05/18/02 08:41 AM
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Not enough information? anyway based on what you did give, it appears divorce may not be the answer if both of you are facing POVERTY if you move out and divorce? you said wife has a friend? they talk on the phone, what are they saying? male or female?<p>If its a male - its it an affair?<p>If its a female - are the talking about you? <p>Please give more info.....

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I am new at this. Here is more information. Married for 18 years.She is seeing someone male friend, hada an affair. She and I dont fight get along ok but she has no affection for me. We have been in separate rooms for 3 years. We both could afford our own appartment if we sell the house, but we both agree with dont want to uproot my son from school. He has three more year and she would like to stay in the house until then.Is it possible to live together, with rule to follow.Any suggetion on rule's of the house and if any one out their has experience living with Ex wife in the same house.

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I think my friend, that you are about to enter into a very complicated situation. I have never been divorced from some one and still lived with her. She left, for a while anyway.
I did however once however briefly live with an ex-girl friend. We had been friends before the relationship started, and thought that we could still be friends after, and still live together.<p>Wrong!<p>When OPs came into the picture, oh it got ugly, mean and hurtful! If anything I recommend that for the three years you plan to live together, stay out of relationships! <p>Can you do this?
It might be real hard. Maybe impossible.<p>Anyway, I guess that I would recommend that you think about and discuss all issues<p>Just my opnion. Good luck, my prayers go with you and your family.


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